Walking Talking Contradictions

We get it- you blame everyone. You blame AFF, BF, BAD RAP, CDC, NBC, CBS, FOX, CW, Billy, Bob, Joe, Sally, Sue, Santa, the Easter Bunny, some random people at Starbucks, the grocery store clerk, a couple of doctors, some nurses, a handful of trashmen, a few rock stars, a gaggle of bloggers, Facebook, a Leprechaun and pretty much everyone except…. one single person for the death of your child. Yourself.

What role do you accept? Responsibility? Somehow, that’s not how your whole tirade reads. I see blaming some unsocialized dogs taken from their mom at 4 weeks old. I see a whole lot of blaming millions of responsible dog owners. You had a healthy hesitation of the “breed” yet you got TWO of them from the same litter?

It’s interesting you write “everything you could do you did“… Which was what? You definitely didn’t respect the parents enough to not take their only son near dogs they told you to keep away from their child. You were so bent on protecting him that you dropped the child and somehow escaped with zero injuries while the child was left in the snow, naked and alone while you somehow managed to get one dog contained and to call 911. According to you, that poor child was in a 15 minute dog attack and you….walked away with absolutely not one single serious injury minus a few little scrapes. No defensive wounds… No bite marks on your hands, arms, or legs anywhere from trying to stop the dogs from biting the child…

I would have a heavy heart too if I didn’t do everything in my power to protect a child I loved. You deserve those nightmares, you deserve those anxiety attacks. You literally got away with murder.

Those dogs didn’t betray that child, they are animals. You betrayed that child. At the end of the day, if you would have respected the parents of that child, that child would still be alive. When push comes to shove, you chose your life over that child’s.

If you were honest and you truly grieved for that child, that sign would say something completely different….

You had that choice to protect Dax… and we all know what you chose.

Cause and Effect

As a mother, it breaks my heart when a child is killed in any fashion and as a mother- it pisses me the f@ck off when parents are the main cause of as child’s death. 



I totally get that this concept is hard for some BSL advocates to understand and since they neeeeever read this blog (riiight…LOL) they probably will not benefit from this lesson.

Causality:

Causality (also referred to as causation) is the relation between an event (the cause) and a second event (the effect), where the second event is understood as a physical consequence of the first.

Basically if you do A than B will usually happen. Unfortunately this can be applied in the majority of child related fatalities due to dog attacks and the death of 4 – year old Javon Dade Jr. shows that.

Javon Dade Sr. & his girlfriend were high on crack and lost track of the 4-year old.

Right- negligent parents/partners so twacked out on crack already spells tragedy for this child. Now, in Miami- there is a pit bull ban. I hate bans but if I chose to live in s city with a ban, I have 2 choices:

1. Move
2. Live there without a pit bull

I’m going to go on a limb and assume since this pathetic crack addict already had no issue breaking the law by using drugs and neglecting his child- he didn’t care that he was also breaking the law by keeping a pit bull. Honestly, I don’t think it really mattered what breed the dog was- because this was a tragedy just waiting to happen. More like not a matter of if but when sort of deal.

Due to his negligence, Javon Dade Sr. murdered his child.

This father willingly bought the crack & smoked it. This man willingly neglected this child- not once but multiple times considering CPS had been out at his home before. In fact- there had been two reports of the dogs being dangerous and combined with selling drugs one can safely assume that these dogs were not kept as the typical family pet.

Check out the video yourself-

Cause:

This father, high on crack with a history of dealing drugs from his home, with known aggressive dogs lost track of his 4-year old son.

Effect:

The innocent 4-year old child is dead.

It begins

“Brooksville – Little Declin Moss loved to play outdoors. At just 18-months-old, he frolicked around the yard and enjoyed being outside in his rural Brooksville neighborhood. The toddler’s grandfather ran outside and witnessed a horrifying sight around 11 a.m. – two snarling, barking dogs mauling his grandson.

Shorey admits that while the dogs never hurt any children or adults, the pets were dangerous to other animals. In fact, he told News Channel 8 that Max and Thumper have killed smaller dogs in the past.” Read the heart breaking story here-

This woman lost her child. What has this woman done to earn the victim bashing from Dogsbite.org and Daxton’s Friend supporters and BSL advocates? She didn’t say that multiple breeds of dogs are mutant spawns from hell. This is one of my biggest issues with these fake victims advocacies. They select “victims” that will only further their agenda and terrorize the victims that does not play their twisted game of manipulation.

This woman has lost her child and now she has to deal with the judgmental hypocrites from Dogsbite.org and make no mistake- they are stalking her Facebook as we speak.

Not only will this woman’s life be ripped apart even further by the harassment and abuse from DBO & Daxton’s Friends supporters- her friends and family will be attacked also. Sadly, the attacks have begun and leading the way is Colleen Lynn, the founder and writer for Dogsbite.org.com-

After reading the open invitation from Colleen Lynn – BSL advocates waste no time slinging mud towards the grieving mother.

How would the family be horrible? According to the media – this single mother worked hard and cherished her son. No where in the media does it state the Grandfather treated his grandson terribly. So- please do tell how this grieving family was terrible?

No- it doesn’t make sense, you twit.

This mother didn’t defend the two dogs that killed her child. Somehow- in her grief she decided that the two innocent dog out of the four that they had should not be held responsible for the actions of two dogs. That millions of dogs did not kill her child. Two did. I would have to say that mother loves that child so much that she refuses to let hate groups like Dogsbite.org and Daxton’s Friends use her tragedy to further their cause.

If you stick around long enough- the truth gets spoken. They don’t truly care about the family. It’s about what can that grieving family do for THEM.

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“They make it a rule to eat their young..” Now that’s great victims advocacy from a group that proclaims victim advocacy as their sole purpose.

Victim bashing…

Oh wait- isn’t this what Jeff Borchardt whines about?

So sorry for your loss but…

So now the grieving mother has a mental disorder? Unfortunately we know the barrage of harassment and cruel remarks has just begun. Instead of letting this family grieve, to come to the terms of a horrific loss they want to keep attacking this family.

I don’t care what the breed is- but any dog attacking and killing a family member feels like a sense of betrayal and the family grieves not just for the child but for the pet that they have grown up with- the very same pet that they formed a bond with. I totally get that BSL advocates can’t understand this because the majority of them have zero sense of healthy relationships and are consumed with so much hate that they can’t react with anything BUT hate. I apologize for them because I know they will never be capable to apologize for their own cruelty.

Dear Moss Family,

My heart breaks for you. As a mother to an almost two year old- I can not imagine the unbearable pain you must be in.

I want to be the first the apologize for the assholes that are heading your way. I’m sorry that these cruel people will rip apart your lives with the sole intent on humiliating you – all in the name of their advocacy of BSL. I wish I could say that they would stop but I won’t lie to you.

My hope for you is that you find strength in your family, your God, your friends, in strangers who grieve with you but most of all- in the love of your son. I hope that you are allowed to grieve without having to battle morons that want to use your tragedy and grief as a weapon. I hope that one day, you have the ability to heal in a healthy way.

I know as mother, the guilt we carry when something happens to our children is heavy but from one mother to another- I can say: let go of the guilt and focus on memories. Focus on his laughter, his excitement when his favorite show comes on, the warmth of him as he falls asleep on you- because it’s those memories that will always be with you throughout your life.

From one mother to another- grieve for the beautiful life lost but celebrate the life that showed you what true, unconditional love really was.

My sympathy-

The Stojakovic Family

* a GoFundMe Account has been set up to help support this family. Let’s help this family.

Daxton’s Friends Founding Board Members War on Women

Jeff Borchardt & Board members have never hidden their war on female pit bull, pit type owners and they are upping their attacks daily.

According to Daxton’s Friends founders- the majority of pit bull owners are childless women, childless lesbian butch dykes, whores and sluts.

After stalking Karen Delise via Twitter – the founders of Daxton’s friends finds it offensive that a woman speaks out against msyoginic comments from the controversial Rush Limbaugh.

Unfortunately- Ms. Delise is not the first nor last case of degrading and msyoginic attacks. In fact- Mr. Borchardt, the founding Board member of Daxton’s friends continuously supports, advocates and solicited information of female pit bull owners with the sole purpose to scare, harass and stalk into silence.

Now- this is where truth shoots Daxton’s verbal onslaughts right in the ass. According to Daxton’s Friends, the majority of pit type dog owners are childless women owners. However, it seems the opposite. Millions of women, such as myself are mothers. Millions of women like myself are mothers and owners of pit type dogs. It is women like myself that Daxton’s Friends is supposedly wanting “educate” about the dangers of our dogs.

From the mouth of Jeff Borchardt and Creater of Daxton’s Friends-

Basically- if we shut up, don’t speak out, fight against him, kill our dogs and let him force his way into our lives than we deserve to be stalked and harassed. Jeff Borchardt- verbally raping women daily and acknowledges it proudly.

Victim Blaming 101

“Portage Police are investigating a man found dead in his home Christmas Day. He appears to have died from dog bites to his arms and face apparently inflicted by his pit bull, according to Porter County Coroner Chuck Harris.”

According to the report- the girlfriend of the deceased victim stated the dog “Fatboy” was aggressive & unpredictable at times- extremely “protective” of bones and was known to growl and snap. The girlfriend states she asked the victim to euthanize the dog before this tragedy.

Dog bite fatalities are horrific- and according to Daxton’s Friends & Dogsbite.org victims are 100% blameless- UNLESS the victim is a pit bull owner- and then it’s game on. Don’t believe it? Look for yourself- “Victims Advocates” victim blaming:

Great job keeping it classy Patricia…

Right- because being a pit bull owner means … He deserved to die?

“Let the owners be the victims of his/her poor judgment”…. There sure is a lot of victim blaming going on- I’m not sure I know any victims advocacy that victim blames like Dogsbite.org and Daxton’s Friends.

And they keep going-

And going-

“Death is the only fix for pit bull advocates..”- you know- I really hope people see these comments made by “victims advocates” that support, promote and follow Dogsbite.org and Daxton’s Friends. That the public see the instability of these “public awareness groups”.

Those darn pit bull owners and advocates just are not dying fast enough. Are you ready for this one? Because this last comment sums their whole advocacy up in one small phrase-

We believe it.